John Jeremiah Ahearne

COUNSELLING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY IN Angel Islington, HOLBORN,

Bond Street, Harley STreet, Cavendish Square, oxford street, and Marylebone


London Counselling and Psychotherapy (LCaP)

Integrative Therapeutic Talking & Listening Therapy, through a Psychodynamic Lens

Accredited Counsellor and psychotherapist with clinics in Angel, Islington, Holborn, Bond Street, Harley Street, Cavendish Square, Oxford Street, the West End, and Marylebone.

Face-to-face & online counselling sessions for adult individuals, couples and other relationships (family and non-traditional).

Welcome to my website

I am a qualified and accredited counsellor with clinics across Angel, Islington, Holborn, Bond Street, Harley Street, Cavendish Square, Oxford Street, the West End, and Marylebone.

I am committed to providing counselling, psychotherapy, and talking therapy in a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental environment. I work with individuals and couples using an open-ended counsellor approach or for an agreed-upon period to enable you to enhance your life experience(s) and live them more fully.

I understand that seeking out therapy might be a difficult decision for some, but I firmly believe that when an individual makes that step, it is because they are ready for change and growth. Using my counsellor training and counsellor knowledge, I will work with you towards a better awareness of yourself and yourself in relation to those around you.


Nothing you say will shock me, and everything you say is always confidential.


Together, we will recognise and explore patterns in yourself and others, what your triggers are, and where those patterns may have originated. I do not believe in immediate fixes; rather, most issues are relational problems.

I work from clinics in Angel, Islington, Holborn, Bond Street, Wimpole Street, Harley Street, Cavendish Square, Oxford Street, the West End, and Marylebone. Currently, I have availability in the West End and Marylebone - behind Selfridges.

It's about the relationship we have with a problem that causes us pain; how you react to a topic, person or life event that causes upset in your personal and/or professional life.

“Being entirely honest with oneself is a good exercise.”

– Sigmund Freud

”The fact that grief takes so long to resolve is not a sign of inadequacy, but betokens depth of soul.”

– Donald Winnicott

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”

– Mahatma Gandhi

“Let me say to begin with: It is not neurotic to have conflict...Conflicts within ourselves are an integral part of human life.”

– Karen Horney

“How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.”

– Wayne W. Dyer

“It is a joy to be hidden, and disaster not to be found.”

– Donald Winnicott

“The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it.”

– Eckhart Tolle

The Process for starting

The process is something like this:


  • We have an initial 15-minute telephone call.
  • You tell me a little bit about what is going on for you and why you have reached out for counselling and psychotherapy.
  • I will tell you a bit about what I can offer you as an integrative therapist.
  • If by the end of the telephone consultation we are both happy to go ahead, we move on to looking at both our diaries to agree on a weekly day/time slot for each week in person at Angel, Islington, Holborn, Bond Street, Wimpole Street, Oxford Street, the West End, and Marylebone. I also offer online counselling sessions or hybrid counselling sessions.
  • I offer a once-weekly model, which can be short-term therapy or long-term therapy (open-ended).


  • If you would prefer a full in-person assessment session in Angel, Islington, Holborn, Bond Street, Wimpole Street, Harley Street, Cavendish Square, Oxford Street, the West End, and Marylebone, please do ask.

Couns.Dip, Cert.Psych, MBACP

Enhanced DBS Renewed May 2023

My locations

I am a qualified counsellor offering face-to-face counselling and psychotherapy services in Angel Islington, Holborn, Bond Street, Wimpole Street, Harley Street, Cavendish Square, Oxford Street, the West End, and Marylebone, London.

I also offer online counselling sessions via the secure platform Zoom. Hybrid online and face-to-face counselling sessions are also available.

Angel, Islington

N1, EC1V

Counselling & Psychotherapy




Holborn, High Holborn & Chancery Lane Counselling & Psychotherapy




Oxford / Bond / Wimpole St, Manchester Square W1U Marylebone Counselling & Psychotherapy

Harley Street, Cavendish Square, Oxford Circus W1G Marylebone Counselling & Psychotherapy

Fees & availability

  • Adult Individual Counselling and Psychotherapy: £90–£145 per therapeutic session (50 minutes)


  • Adult Individual Counselling and Psychotherapy: more than once per week: £75–£95 per therapeutic session (50 minutes)


  • Adult Couple Counselling and Psychotherapy/ Separation Therapy: £125–£175 per therapeutic session, depending on length


  • Other Relationships Counseling and Psychotherapy: £125–£175 per therapeutic session, depending on length


I am available for a free 15-minute conversation on the telephone for clients to discuss what they want out of therapy. Please ask about an in-person full assessment session if you prefer—in Angel Islington, Holborn, Bond Street, Wimpole Street, Harley Street, Cavendish Square, Oxford Street, the West End, and Marylebone.

Some of the issues that people seeking therapy look for online

April 2025

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Low self-esteem
  • Low self-confidence
  • Family issues
  • Trauma
  • Stress
  • Bereavement
  • Couples therapy
  • Mental health
  • Feeling sad
  • Loneliness
  • Addiction
  • LGBTQ+ counselling
  • Kink aware therapy


  • Neurodiversity
  • Person-centred therapy
  • W1G Psychotherapy
  • Social anxiety
  • Anger management
  • Integrative counselling
  • Panic attacks
  • Sex problems
  • Attachment disorder
  • Cognitive and behavioural therapies
  • Psychodynamic therapy
  • Health anxiety
  • Islington Counselling
  • Suicidal thoughts
  • Affairs and betrayals


  • Eating disorders
  • Abuse
  • Work-related stress
  • Generalised anxiety disorder
  • Dissociation
  • Perfectionism
  • Marylebone Counselling
  • Alcoholism
  • Emotional abuse
  • West End Counselling
  • Career counselling
  • Self-harm
  • Sexual abuse
  • Binge-eating disorder
  • Psychoanalytic therapy


Monthly Spotlight

Understanding Bipolar Disorder Through a Pluralistic Lens

Approaching bipolar disorder through a pluralistic lens offers a more holistic and compassionate understanding of what it means to live with extreme shifts in mood, energy, and emotional intensity. Rather than committing to one fixed therapeutic path, a pluralistic approach values diversity in both experience and treatment. It recognises that each individual has unique needs and that these needs may change over time. Within this framework, different therapeutic modalities — such as medication, cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT), psychodynamic work, and even more systemic approaches like constellation therapy — can be integrated and adapted to provide support at different points in the person’s journey.


Pluralism values what works for the individual. Where CBT might offer structured tools to manage depressive thoughts or early signs of mania, DBT provides vital techniques for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness — skills particularly helpful for those who struggle with impulsivity or mood instability. Psychodynamic therapy, in contrast, creates space to explore the deeper emotional roots of a person’s experience, including early relational patterns and unconscious beliefs about self and others. In a pluralistic approach, these therapies are not seen as competing, but as complementary—different ways of engaging with the person’s story.


For people living with bipolar disorder, the shifts between mania and depression are rarely just chemical events. Through a psychodynamic or meaning-oriented perspective, these episodes may also reflect internal struggles: mania as a defence against despair or low self-worth, depression as an expression of grief, guilt, or emotional overload. A pluralistic therapist may explore these dynamics while also supporting practical needs—such as improving sleep, setting routines, or strengthening family support.


Therapy becomes a space not only for managing symptoms but also for making sense of them.


The therapeutic relationship is central across all modalities. Whether working in a behavioural, systemic, or psychodynamic style, the therapist offers a steady, non-judgemental presence. Through this relationship, individuals may begin to experience safety in vulnerability, or to rewrite internal stories shaped by past trauma or neglect. Within a pluralistic framework, the nature of the relationship can shift as needed—from supportive and containing during crisis, to reflective and exploratory when the person feels more stable.


Timing and flexibility are key. During a manic episode, the priority might be safety, containment, and stabilisation — possibly involving medication adjustment, crisis planning, or short-term behavioural strategies. When the person is more grounded, the focus may widen to include deeper emotional work, psychoeducation, or relational healing. A pluralistic approach accommodates these shifts. It’s not about sticking rigidly to one model, but about tuning in to what feels most helpful, accessible, and meaningful at a given time.


Importantly, pluralism also invites us to consider the person’s relationship to their diagnosis. Being told one has bipolar disorder can bring both relief and fear, clarity and shame. Some may welcome the explanation, while others feel boxed in or stigmatised. Rather than imposing a singular narrative, a pluralistic approach makes space for these mixed feelings. It encourages the person to define what the diagnosis means for them and to explore how it fits (or doesn’t fit) into their understanding of who they are.


Over time, a pluralistic approach supports more than symptom control — it fosters growth, resilience, and self-knowledge. Someone might begin by learning to manage their triggers with CBT, deepen their understanding of family dynamics through constellation work, build emotional capacity through DBT skills, and then reflect on their identity and values in a longer-term psychodynamic process. Each of these experiences contributes something meaningful to the whole. There is no single path through bipolar disorder, and pluralism honours that.


Family and systemic support are also valued in this approach. Many individuals with bipolar disorder live in complex relational systems that shape and are shaped by their illness. Constellation therapy and family-based interventions can uncover intergenerational patterns, unresolved grief, or loyalty conflicts that may influence emotional stability. In some cases, bringing family members into the therapeutic process can ease communication, reduce shame, and build a shared understanding of how best to support one another.


Medication remains a cornerstone of care for many, particularly in managing the biological rhythms of bipolar disorder. But even here, a pluralistic stance can help. Rather than seeing medication as a cure or a failure, it becomes one tool among many — a foundation that supports the person in engaging more fully in therapy and life. The key is collaboration: involving the person in decisions about their care, and respecting their preferences, values, and lived experiences.


In essence, a pluralistic lens reframes treatment as a partnership. It shifts the focus from “What’s the right method?” to “What matters most to you, right now?” That question lies at the heart of this approach. It acknowledges that healing is not linear, and that therapy is most effective when it listens, adapts, and responds to the evolving nature of a person’s life.


For individuals with bipolar disorder, this kind of therapy can be both stabilising and liberating. It offers the freedom to explore different parts of oneself, the structure to navigate crisis, and the support to move forward with a deeper sense of agency. Through the pluralistic lens, therapy is not just about managing illness — it’s about reconnecting with hope, identity, and meaning across all phases of recovery


Books of interest

  • The Body Keeps the Score - Bessel van der Kolk
  • Object relations & relationality in couple therapy - James L Poulto
  • Mentalizing in Psychotherapy - Carla Sharp; Dickton Bevington and Peter Fonagy
  • Existential Kink - Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power - Carolyn Elliott
  • The Games People Play - Eric Berne (Transactional Analysis)
  • Psychoanalytic Ideas series - Psychosis (Madness) & Perinatal Loss & Breakdown
  • Psychoanalytic theories: perspectives from developmenta psychopathology - Peter Fonagy & Mary Target
  • Transactional Analysis in Psychotherapy: The Classic Handbook to its Principles - Eric Berne
  • The Unconscious at Work - Anton Obholzer
  • From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Psychoanalytic Treatment of Psychosis - Danielle Knafo and Michael Selzer
  • Kink-Affirming Practice -Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair - Stefani Goerlich
  • Mad, Bad and Sad - Lisa Appignanesi
  • Thinking Space: Promoting Thinking About Race, Culture and Diversity in Psychotherapy and Beyond - Tavistock Clinic - Frank Lowe
  • The origins of Psychoanalysis: Freud, Ferenczi and the Challenge of Thought - Maria PierriC
  • Civilisation and Its Discontents - Sigmund Freud
  • Was it Ever Just Sex? - Darian Leader
  • Dreams That Turn Over a Page: Paradoxical Dreams in Psychoanalysis - Jean-Mitchel Quinodoz


Get in touch

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how counselling or psychotherapy works, or to arrange an initial assessment appointment. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to counselling, whether it could be helpful for you and whether I am the right therapist to help.


You can also call/text/WhatsApp me on 07549 165 155 if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.


All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.


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Angel Islington, Holborn, Bond Street, Wimpole Street, Oxford Street, the West End, and Marylebone.

N1, EC1V, WC1V, W1, W1G, W1U, W1J, and W1R.