John Jeremiah Ahearne

COUNSELLING AND PSYCHOTHERAPY IN Angel Islington, HOLBORN,

Bond Street, Harley STreet, Cavendish Square, oxford street, and Marylebone


Feeling Sad – it’s a human thing…

Feeling Sad - it's a human thing...

Feeling sad is a human thing. It can feel like a grey cloud that won’t lift, a heaviness in your chest, or a kind of numbness that makes everything seem a bit far away. Sometimes it follows something obvious - a loss, a change, a fallout. Sometimes it creeps in for no apparent reason. Most of us feel sad from time to time, and it passes. When it hangs around and starts to shape how you think, sleep, eat, work, and relate to people, therapy can help.

Relational Therapy – using an attachment-based methodology

Relational Therapy: Healing Through Relationship

When people ask me what kind of therapy I offer, I often reply that I work relationally. It’s a simple enough phrase, but behind it lies something rich, layered, and deeply human. Relational therapy is not a method or a set of techniques—it’s an attitude, a stance. It’s a way of being with clients that places the relationship between us at the heart of the work. Because so often, it’s not just what happened to someone that causes pain—it’s how those experiences shaped their relationships with others, and with themselves.

Childhood Trauma: The Wounds We Carry

Childhood Trauma: The Wounds We Carry

**Childhood Trauma: The Wounds We Carry** Childhood trauma can leave deep, lasting scars that significantly impact our lives. These formative experiences shape our beliefs, behaviours, and emotional responses, often in profound ways that we may not fully recognise. Acknowledging and confronting this trauma is crucial for genuine healing and transformative personal growth. By bringing awareness to the wounds we carry, we empower ourselves to understand and overcome them, paving the way for a healthier, more fulfilling life. Embracing this journey is not just an act of courage; it is a powerful step toward reclaiming our narrative and embracing our potential. 

Loneliness Through an Integrative Framework with a Psychodynamic Lens

Loneliness isn’t just a lack of social contact—it’s a deep emotional experience rooted in how we relate to ourselves and others. An integrative framework, especially one incorporating a psychodynamic lens, helps explain the complexity behind this experience by examining both internal conflicts and external circumstances. Rather than seeing loneliness as a symptom to be eliminated, psychodynamic theory views it as a signal pointing to unresolved developmental and relational issues.

Perfectionism Through a Psychodynamic Lens

Perfectionism comes up often in the therapy room; many clients have quietly said, almost apologetically — “I think I might be a bit of a perfectionist.” It’s often said with a smile that doesn’t quite reach the eyes. And I get it. Our culture tends to applaud perfectionism. It looks like ambition, excellence, drive. But […]

Understanding Bipolar Disorder Through a Pluralistic Lens

Approaching bipolar disorder through a pluralistic lens offers a more holistic and compassionate understanding of what it means to live with extreme shifts in mood, energy, and emotional intensity. Rather than committing to one fixed therapeutic path, a pluralistic approach values diversity in both experience and treatment. It recognises that each individual has unique needs […]

Integrative Treatment of Low Self confidence Through a Psychodynamic Lens

Low Self-Confidence in Integrative Therapy: A Psychodynamic Take Low self-confidence shows up in all kinds of ways—hesitating to speak up in a group, second-guessing decisions, brushing off compliments, or constantly fearing failure. It’s something many people struggle with, often quietly, and it can really limit a person’s sense of self-worth and ability to live fully. […]

Assessment and Diagnosis in Integrative Psychotherapy

  Welcome to the third installment of our in-depth blog series on integrative psychotherapy. This month, we focus on the crucial initial steps of assessment and diagnosis. Effective assessment and diagnosis are foundational to developing a tailored, integrative treatment plan that addresses the unique needs of each client. Body: 1. Comprehensive Assessment Techniques: Integrative psychotherapy […]

Theoretical Foundations of Integrative Psychotherapy

Theoretical Foundations of Integrative Psychotherapy Title: The Theoretical Foundations of Integrative Psychotherapy Introduction: In our second issue, we delve into the theoretical foundations of integrative psychotherapy. Understanding these underpinnings is crucial for appreciating how this approach brings together diverse therapeutic models to create a cohesive and effective treatment strategy. Body: 1. Exploration of Theoretical Underpinnings: […]

What is Integrative Psychotherapy?

What is Integrative Psychotherapy?   Introduction: Integrative psychotherapy is an approach that synthesizes elements from various therapeutic modalities to create a comprehensive treatment tailored to individual client needs. This month, we'll explore the fundamentals of integrative psychotherapy, tracing its origins, principles, and applications. Body: 1. Definition and Basic Principles: Integrative psychotherapy aims to combine the […]

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